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Thursday, December 6, 2012

The Personal Side of Bias, Prejudice, and Oppression

Living in South Korea I had a hard time dealing with the way women are treated.  The value is of little significance.  The women are there to take care of the children, house and the men.  If an as women married an American male who had children (female) they treated that child as if she was a threat to the relationship.  
 
This oppression diminished the equity between the male and female race; making the male more superior.  These women were oppressed as they were not allowed to speak up unless directed.   The women automatically knew their places in society.  As a woman of the western culture, this is what we were called, it made my skill crawl to see how they treated the women and to know the little girls were going to grow up the same way.

The feels this brought up for me was that of anger, resent, the who do they think they are syndrome, and if it were not for the women they wouldn’t exist either.  For anyone to think they are more superior to the next is pure ignorance.  Men could not survive without women in the world; they need to get over themselves. 

What and or who that would have to change would be society and history.  History has made its mark on the culture and now only society can change the way things are passed from generation to generation.  When there society realizes that everyone is human and should be treated equal only then will the opportunity for greater equity be seen.

2 comments:

  1. Hi Wanda

    You certainly are a world traveller. I am sure you have seen many great things as well as many injustices in your travels.

    Sexism exists in every culture unfortunately, but it is unfortunate that the girls in South Korea are being raised in such an oppressive environment. It makes me wonder if their status in society affords them the same education as the males in their countries.

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  2. Sick bit very true Wanda! I know form personal experience from my brother in law who was stationed in Japan and had a child with a Japenese woman. Basically it was because he did not want to marry her so the child was seen as an outcast and she told my brother in law she was going to give the child up for adoption because of the stigma of having a child with an American as well as he being half black. Needless to say he brought his son back to the states and he is a wonderful child, but it just blows my mind of the ism my nephew could have faced in that country.

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